Monday, June 16, 2025 | St. Lawrence County, NY
LISBON - Mary Miller Dalton, age 72, passed away on Friday, March 28, 2025. Born on November 17, 1952, in Massena, New York, she was a beloved daughter of the late Orin and Pauline (Landon) Miller. Mary spent much of her life in the close-knit community of Lisbon, New York, where she touched many lives with her kindness and wisdom.
On September 8, 1973, Mary married Paul Dalton, with whom she shared over fifty years of love, partnership, and memories. Their union was a testament to their unwavering devotion to each other. Together, they raised two children, their son Scott, born in 1977, and daughter Melinda (Akins), born in 1979. To Mary the joy of nurturing and guiding her children was one of life’s greatest gifts. She often said that they “were her greatest blessings.” Later in life, she found immense joy in being a grandmother to Luke and Anna Dalton, whose laughter and light filled her heart with warmth. She cherished every moment of their growth and took delight in their journeys through life.
A lifelong learner, Mary held education in the highest regard. She graduated from Holy Family School in Massena in 1970, followed by an Associate’s Degree from Mater Dei College in Ogdensburg, New York, in 1972. She continued her studies at Potsdam State, earning a Bachelor’s Degree in 1975. After taking time to focus on her family, she returned to her academic pursuits and earned a Master’s Degree in Counseling from St. Lawrence University in 1996. For twelve years she worked at Catholic Charities, where she developed a deep connection with her clients, offering them guidance and support.
Additionally, Mary maintained a private counseling practice for seven years from the comfort of her home, further extending her compassionate reach.
Mary’s warmth, intelligence, and loving spirit will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She lived a life grounded in faith, family, and service to others, leaving behind a legacy of kindness, education, and care.
Calling hours for Mary will be held at the Phillips Memorial Home in Waddington located at 28 Clinton Street on Friday, April 11, 2025, from 1:00pm to 3:00pm and 5:00pm to 7:00pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00am on Saturday, April 12, 2025, at St. Mary’s Church with Rev. Garry Giroux and Rev. J. Seymour co-officiating. Burial to take place in the parish cemetery at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made in Mary’s name to the Dialysis Unit of Claxton-Hepburn Medical Center; 214 King St, Ogdensburg, NY 13669 or to the Muscular Dystrophy Association; 6315 Fly Road, Suite 102, East Syracuse, NY, 13057
Family and friends are encouraged to share memorial trees, photos, memories and condolences online by visiting, www.PhillipsMemorial.com.
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