Verna Ann (Ashley) DeKay, 84, formerly of Ogdensburg
Thursday, October 28, 2010 - 9:38 am

Verna Ann (Ashley) DeKay, 84, formerly of Ogdensburg, passed away peacefully in the presence of family on Sunday afternoon in Bloomington, Ill.

Mass of Christian Burial will be 10 a.m. Thursday at St. Charles Catholic Church with Father William Stumpf officiating. Burial will be at Clear Creek Cemetery.

Calling hours were held at Allen Funeral Home, 4155 S. Old St. Rd. 37, Bloomington, on Wednesday from 5 to 8 p.m.

There will be a gathering of friends and family following the burial services around noon on Thursday with the location to be announced.

Verna was born on September 22, 1926 in Ogdensburg. She was the daughter of Raymond Ashley and Dorothy (Gulliver) Ashley.

She is survived by her older sister, Marcella Downey Weil of Syracuse, her daughter, Michelle S. Yeger of Bloomington, two granddaughters; Dawn Marie Shea-Paganelli (Tony Paganelli) of Indianapolis and Paige Nicole Hall of Bloomington, her great grandchildren, John Clifford Paganelli and Brooke Elissa Shea Paganelli, her niece, Renee Downey Hart of Syracuse, and her nephew, Robert Downey of Ogdensburg.

She resided in Odgensburg and married Clifford DeKay in September of 1950.

She and Cliff had one child, Michelle (DeKay) Yeger. They resided in Canton while Cliff attended St. Lawrence University.

The family then resided in several communities in upstate New York and also in Geneva, Ill., finally making Bloomington their home in 1971, so Cliff could pursue a career as a research engineer for Sarkes Tarzain Corp.

Verna found a new calling after moving to Bloomington and took on the monumental task of organizing and presenting an annual holiday bazaar at Central State Hospital.

At this event patients were able to choose free gifts for themselves and loved ones each holiday season.

This organization ran on her hard work and public donations alone and was a truly a labor of love. She received much media attention and also several awards for her humanitarian efforts.

Verna never met a stranger and many people she knew felt she was the angel brought to them in their time of crisis or need.

Verna was a member of St. Charles Catholic Church and later the St. John’s the Apostle Catholic Church, both in Bloomington.

She lovingly cared for her husband Cliff during his longtime battle with multiple sclerosis until the time of his passing in 1999.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her brother Raymond, her sister Marie and her husband, Cliff.

Memorial contributions may be made to the family in care of Allen Funeral Home.

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