Norene Fiacco Ashley, 95, Massena
Tuesday, October 9, 2018 - 8:28 pm

MASSENA -- On Monday October 8, 2018 “With the Wind Beneath her Wings” Norene Fiacco Ashley flew “Over the Rainbow” on her way to a new beginning. Norene lived a very full and happy life.

Born September 20, 1923 to Enrico “Henry” and Verneda (Noce) Fiacco, Norene had just celebrated her 95th birthday.

On April 4, 1941 Norene Fiacco became Norene Ashley when she married Harold “Bill” Ashley. They were married for 55 years when Bill predeceased her in 1996. Norene continued to live in the family home on Cook Street until 2012, when she needed to have more care at the St. Regis Nursing Home.

Norene was the mother to five children and accepted their spouses as her children too; Dianne Shambo, Franklin and Helen Ashley, Karon and John Tomlinson, Ted and Kathie Ashley, and Denise and Darren Furnace. Norene’s children enriched her life with providing her more joy and love with 23 grandchildren, 30 great-grandchildren, and 11 great-great-grandchildren.

Norene was a dedicated and loving wife, mother and grandmother. She was always cooking, baking, canning and sewing to provide for her family. You could always find Norene at her children’s and many of her grandchildren’s school and sporting events. Inside or out, hot or cold, sunshine, rain or snow Norenen was there.

Norene was also involved in many of her own activities. She was one of the founding members of the Honey Lamb bowling league at the Bowlmor Lanes, a life member of the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 1143 Auxiliary, and lifelong communicant of Sacred Heart Church. At age 50 she started golfing and was instrumental in getting a Women’s Golf League at Raymondville Golf Course.

Besides her children and grandchildren she is survived by her brother Andrew “Stanley” and June Fiacco of Massena and Anna Murray of Auburn along with many nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased her husband Harold “Bill” Ashley, a grandson Scott Shambo, brothers Franklin and Carl Fiacco and a sister Rose Brown.

Upon the family’s request, there will be no public calling hours. The family will be holding private calling hours at the convenience of the family Wednesday. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:00 A.M. Thursday October 11, 2018 at Sacred Heart Church with Rev. Tojo Chacko presiding. Burial to take place immediately following the funeral services in Calvary Cemetery.

Norene was a colon cancer survivor and attended many Relay for Life events. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Norene’s name to Rally for a Cure, Relay for Life Massena/Louisville, at or to the Alzheimer’s Association.

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